If you are in a healthy relationship, you look forward to being around your significant other. If you dread phone calls or text messages from the person you ended up with, or just want to punch them in the face for no other reason than they are trying to make you happy, then it’s time to let go. You may need to take some time to make yourself happy before you get into another relationship.
You’re The Only One Compromising
Compromise is a crucial part of every healthy relationship. We all have to compromise now and then to ensure a fair and equitable relationship where no one feels used. However, if you are the only one compromising, and your partner never makes any concessions in the relationship, even when something is extremely important to you, it might be time to let go. Eventually, you’ll start to feel used and taken advantage of and will begin to resent your partner. Before it comes to that, let go and find someone who wants a real relationship.
They Keep Looking Down On You
If you’re with someone who constantly criticizes your every move, calls you a failure, makes you feel embarrassed in front of others, and always tells you that you should thank your lucky stars for them staying with you, it’s time to let go (NOW!). You don’t deserve nor should you stand for that type of abuse in a relationship.
Too Many Chances
You’re with someone who keeps breaking your trust. After every incident, they promise you it will never happen again but somehow it magically keeps happening again. It is because you’re not a priority for them, and they know you will take their disloyalty and stay. Seeing the tears in your eyes and the hurt in your voice does not phase your partner and never will. It’s time to let go and find someone who makes you a priority in their life and wouldn’t dream of causing tears in your eyes.