Slacking and not doing your share of the errands or chores.
We all have things to do. Most of us are very busy. But what it usually comes down to is pure and simple laziness.
Whatever it is that you promised your partner to do surely doesn’t involve something that you’re not physically capable of doing. You may be tired from working all day, but guess what — so is your partner.
If things need to get done, then they need to get done. If you’re giving your lover no choice but to pick up your slack for you, then you ought to apologize. In this case, such laziness is just rude.
Not trying hard enough to make the small changes your partner would appreciate you making.
No one is ever happy with any other person 100 percent of the time. We all have our less-than-ideal habits or tendencies that can easily get on other people’s nerves.
The thing is, your lover isn’t just “other people”; he or she is a huge part of your life.
If you plan on making it work in the long run, then you’re going to have to make compromises so you don’t drive the other insane.
To be completely honest, no one should be asking you to do things that you don’t want to do.
If you don’t want to make these small changes for the person you apparently love, however, then are you sure you care about him or her much as you believe you do?
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